Making the Most

Thoughts on my career, dating and other musings.

If you know anything about me, you know I'm on a constant mission to make the most out of every situation. Whether in my career, home, life or relationships, I'm trying to squeeze everything I can out of each moment.

Join me as I explore "making the most."

Dating

Career

Musings

Holding On to Hope

Hope is the only thing that keeps us moving. Hope is the thing to look forward to, the “better day tomorrow,” the chance to see dreams fulfi

Slow Down, You Crazy Child

I’ve sung along with Billy Joe’s hit song Vienna countless times, but it wasn’t until a dear friend sang the words in a dimly lit room...

Taking Off the Armor

Over the past few years, I’ve noticed that this “thick skin” can begin to look like armor. Often, I unwittingly put on piece of armor after

Learning to Embrace the "Gray Area"

I'm either hot or cold. We’re either on or off. It's either black or white. There is no in between. But lately, I've found that

Don’t Call Me Babe

Hey Mr. Just-Swiped-Right, don’t call me babe. Don’t text me “goodnight beautiful” or “have a great day, honey.” Do a quick backspace...

One Year Down, Another One to Grow

26. I can’t believe as I write this that I’m not longer 26. For some reason, 26 feels harder to let go of.

A Touch of Holiday Heartbreak

If you don't find yourself crying into your Christmas tree patterned turtleneck after a joyous holiday celebration, are you even doing d

Facing Up to Rejection

I’ve always joked with my friends after a love-story gone wrong, “don’t worry, I’m really good at rejection.”

How to Online Date For the First Time

Setting out to find love can feel like setting out to run a marathon. You know that it can be rewarding because you’ve seen your friends...

So You Don’t Know If You Should Online Date

This one goes out to all my first-time online daters. You’re not weird. Online dating is, but that doesn’t mean it’s something you...